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Sunday, January 29, 2012

We Are Daughters....

I have officially given my second talk in less than six months.  For someone absolutely terrified of public speaking....this is huge.  So for your reading pleasure.....here's my talk, minus ad libs, tears and miscellaneous rambling.


We are daughters of our Heavenly Father, who loves us, and we love Him. WE WILL “STAND as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places” as we strive to live the Young Women values, which are:
Faith • Divine Nature • Individual Worth • Knowledge • Choice and Accountability • Good Works • Integrity • and Virtue
WE BELIEVE as we come to accept and act upon these values, WE WILL BE PREPARED to strengthen home and family, make and keep sacred covenants, receive the ordinances of the temple, and enjoy the blessings of exaltation.
Every Sunday the Young Women stand together as symbols of truth and righteousness and repeat the Young Women theme.  Each Sunday we say and listen to these words, as a reminder of our value to our Father in Heaven and the sacred nature by which we are here.
Brother Holmes asked me to speak on how the Young Women’s theme could apply to all of us as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.  The easiest way to do this is look at each part of the theme.
The first part of the theme says “We are Daughters of our Heavenly Father, who loves us and we love Him.”  In one of the first pages of the Personal Progress handbook, the First Presidency wrote a message for the Young Women of the church.  In part, it reads, “You are a beloved daughter of Heavenly Father, prepared to come to the earth at this particular time for a sacred and glorious purpose. You have a noble responsibility to use your strength and influence for good. Your loving Heavenly Father has blessed you with talents and abilities that will help you fulfill your divine mission.”  Can this not be said of every one of us? 
We have each been sent to earth to fill a divine mission.  Our missions vary as much as we do.   Sister Majorie Pay Hinckley said, “Think about your particular assignment at this time in your life. It may be to get an education, it may be to rear children, it may be to be a grandparent, it may be to care for an relieve the suffering of someone you love, it may be to do a job in the most excellent way possible, it may be to support someone who has a difficult assignment of their own. Our assignments are varied and they change from time to time. Don't take them lightly. Give them your full heart and energy. Do them with enthusiasm.” 
Our Father in Heaven did not give us our missions lightly.  I am certain that before we accepted the opportunity to come to Earth, He took a moment with each of us.  I know that He explained that it wouldn’t be an easy road.  I know He explained that there would be many trials and tribulations along the way, but that there would also be great joys.  I know He told me how much He loves me and that if I didn’t think I could do it, He would understand.  And He made sure that I understood He would stand beside me and that the armies of Heaven would surround me and that I would not have to take one step of the journey alone.
The next part of the Young Women’s theme comes from Mosiah 18:9.  “We will stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places as we strive to live the Young Women values.”
The values by which we live are Faith, Divine Nature, Individual Worth, Knowledge, Choice and Accountability, Good Works, Integrity and Virtue.
Why are these 8 things the values that Young Women’s is based on?  They are cornerstones.
In Alma 32:32 we read, “Faith is not to have a perfect knowledge of things; therefore if ye have faith ye hope for things which are not seen, which are true.”  Faith is the building block that brings us to church each Sunday, and brings us to our knees in times of great trial and great joy.
“Be partakers of the divine nature. … Giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; and to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness; and to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity” (2 Peter 1:4–7).  It is not necessary to be a Young Woman to recognize your Divine Worth.  It is only necessary to recognize that you are a Child of God.
D&C 18:10 says, “Remember the worth of souls is great in the sight of God.”  Our Father in Heaven knows who we are.  There can be no question, that to Him we are HIS child, not another in a sea of faces.  Anyone who has ever received a blessing can attest to the fact that He is aware of our individual needs.  He is  mindful of WHO WE ARE.
D&C 88:118 says, “Seek learning, even by study and also by faith.”  We may not all be destined for continuing education, but we are not to strive only for secular knowledge.  We are here to learn of Him, and how we can be more like Him through all that we do.  Our Savior gave us the example and teachings necessary; we have simply to follow and learn from His example.
We have been counseled in Joshua 24:15 to “Choose you this day whom ye will serve;…but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”  At any age, one of the most difficult lessons we have to learn is consequence.  We seem to think that we can rationalize our way out of anything and everything.  But with each choice, there will always be a consequence.  Our choices can bring great sorrow or great joy.
Good works is a necessary key to living the gospel  3 Nephi 12:16 says, “Therefore let your light so shine before this people, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in Heaven.”  One of my favorite scripture mastery verses is from James 2:26.  “For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.”  Faith is a verb, it requires action, and how better to exemplify our Savior’s example than through service to others.
Job 27:5 reads, “Till I die I will not remove mine integrity from me.”  Joseph B. Wirthlin gave his definition of integrity in a conference talk from April of 1990, “To me, integrity means always doing what is right and good, regardless of the immediate consequences.  It means being righteous from the very depth of our soul, not only in our actions, but, more importantly, in our thoughts and in our hearts.  Personal integrity implies such trustworthiness and incorruptibility that we are incapable of being false to a trust or covenant.”  I would like to add that integrity means standing for what is right, even if it means standing alone.
The final value is virtue.  Young Women’s General President, Elaine S. Dalton said, “Virtue is a pattern of thought and behavior based on high moral standards”, which was taken from Preach my Gospel, but she went on to say, “It encompasses chastity and moral purity.  Virtue begins in the heart and in the mind.  It is nurtured in the home.  It is the accumulation of thousands of small decisions and actions.”
Faith, Divine Nature, Individual Worth, Knowledge, Choice and Accountability, Good Works, Integrity and Virtue are not simply values for Young Women.  They are meant for each of us, as a guide for each day and encouragement to “Hold to the Rod”.
The final section of the Young Women’s theme says, “WE BELIEVE as we come to accept and act upon these values, WE WILL BE PREPARED to strengthen home and family, make and keep sacred covenants, receive the ordinances of the temple, and enjoy the blessings of exaltation.”
Living the values outlined in the Personal Progress program prepares us, each of us.  Age is irrelevant; we are being prepared for each new breath, each new experience and each new lesson.
I love that the theme specifies we are being prepared to strengthen home and family.  The family is under attack.  Satan goes to great lengths to lessen the importance of a family in today’s world.  Part of the “Family: A Proclamation to the World reads, “…The disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.”  However, through living the values of the Gospel we are able to create armor against the biases of the world and protect that which we and our Father in Heaven hold dear.
By learning who we are to our Father in Heaven, and recognizing our sacred role as His children we become worthy to enter the temple and make the covenants that will help us return to Him.
Our mandate from Our Father is simple, “Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men.  Wherefore, if ye shall press forward, feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.” (2 Nephi 31:20) 
And it will be joyous, “And for this cause ye shall have fullness of joy; and ye shall sit down in the kingdom of my Father, yea, your joy shall be full, even as the Father hath given me fullness of joy; and ye shall be even as I am, and I am even as the Father…” (3 Nephi 28:10)
[There was some filler here....ad libbing, crying, miscellaneous rambling....]
I would like to close by urging you to develop your relationship with Heavenly Father.  Get to know Him as He knows you.
And to close, I would like to share the theme one more time, with a single word change.
We are CHILDREN of our Heavenly Father, who loves us, and we love Him. WE WILL “STAND as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places” as we strive to live the Young Women values, which are:
Faith • Divine Nature • Individual Worth • Knowledge • Choice and Accountability • Good Works • Integrity • and Virtue
WE BELIEVE as we come to accept and act upon these values, WE WILL BE PREPARED to strengthen home and family, make and keep sacred covenants, receive the ordinances of the temple, and enjoy the blessings of exaltation.

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